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The Hidden Cost of Myths

By Upstate SC Web Design

October 16, 2026

By Jill Lipson

Recently, I saw a social media post that said, “Stop sugarcoating me… you’re going to give me diabetes.” Many people would read that and smile. But for me, it hit differently.

My husband and my son both live with Type 1 diabetes. My husband was diagnosed before age 10, and my son was diagnosed at age 11. Because of their experiences, I know firsthand that people do not get Type 1 diabetes from eating too much sugar.

Type 1 diabetes is an autoimmune disease. It happens when the body’s immune system attacks the cells in the pancreas that produce insulin. Insulin is a hormone that helps the body use food for energy.

Some people might think the social media post was referring to Type 2 diabetes instead. But even then, the statement oversimplifies a complex condition. Type 2 diabetes develops when the body does not use insulin effectively. While lifestyle factors can play a role, genetics, age, family history, and other health factors are also important. The idea that diabetes is simply caused by eating too much sugar is a common myth.

Why Do Myths Matter?

Myths become powerful because we hear them so often that they begin to sound like facts. Over time, they become part of everyday conversations, and few people stop to question them.

The truth is that all of us have believed a myth at some point. Sometimes we accept information because it is familiar. Other times, we resist new information because changing our minds can be uncomfortable.

But myths can have real consequences, especially when it comes to health and aging.

The Myth of Losing Independence

One of the most common myths I hear about aging is this:

“If I start using a walker, hire help at home, or work with a care manager, I’ll lose my independence.”

In reality, the opposite is often true.

The right support at the right time can help people remain independent for much longer. A walker can prevent a fall. A home care aide can assist with tasks that have become difficult while allowing you to continue doing the things you still enjoy. A geriatric care manager can help coordinate services and identify ways to keep you safe and comfortable at home.

Accepting support is not giving up independence. It is taking steps to protect it.

In fact, making small adjustments early can often mean the difference between remaining in your own home and needing to move to an assisted living community or nursing facility later.

Aging in Place With Confidence

A good geriatric care manager focuses on helping you maintain control of your life. Their goal is not to take over. Their goal is to help you continue doing as much as possible for yourself while putting the right safety nets in place.

At Givens Choice, we believe aging should not be stressful or overwhelming. Our program provides certified geriatric care management, helps cover long-term care services when needed, and supports planning for the future.

Most importantly, we help individuals and families navigate aging with confidence.

Be Open to a Different Perspective

Just as myths about diabetes can lead to misunderstandings, myths about aging can keep people from getting the support they need.

If you’ve ever thought that accepting help means giving up independence, it may be worth taking another look. Sometimes the tools, services, and support we resist are the very things that help us stay independent longer.

You do not have to navigate aging alone.

Givens Choice is here to help you age safely, confidently, and well in the home of your choice. Sometimes the first step is simply being willing to challenge a long-held belief and discover what is truly possible.